As to the famous question posed by the Bard “To be or not to be”, the answer to the first part of the question is given, manifest at your inception, decided by those before you on your behalf.
The answer to the second part lies in your own consciousness, your own state of being.
The question of “not being” is a non sequitur.
There is only the recognition and ultimate acceptance that “being” transcends “not being” as there is no such thing as a distinction between the two.
If you accept that your consciousness transcends your understanding of what it means and is “to be”, there is no such thing as “not being”.
There is simply consideration in appreciation for all states of being as being is always a process of becoming.